Susanne J. Nickolai-Mays

    Dr. Susanne J. Nickolai-Mays, PhD, age 70, passed from this life on January 17, 2014 at St. Agnes Hospital in Fond du Lac after her battle with cancer.

     

    She was born September 16, 1943 in Ripon, the daughter of Elmer and Edna Muehrer Nickolai. Susanne

    lived on the family farm until she left for college.

     

     

    As the oldest child she was taught how to drive the farm tractor and help her dad

    in the fields. She loved learning all her life and really was a “life-long learner”. She

    attended Neshkoro Grade School, Princeton High School where she was

    Valedictorian and then went on to UW-Oshkosh where she earned a degree in

    Secondary Education with majors in English and Social Studies. After graduation,

    she moved to Waukesha where she taught for 18 years at the middle school and

    high school levels in the city.

     

    Susanne continued her post graduate education while teaching. She first earned

    a Master’s Degree in Reading from Cardinal Stritch College in Milwaukee. Next

    she attended UW-Milwaukee where she earned a MS in Educational Psychology

    with an emphasis in school counseling. Finally, she completed a PhD in Urban

    Education with an emphasis on multicultural education and those who are

    underserved in society. Susanne felt blessed to receive a number of scholarships

    from Delta Kappa Gamma sorority to cover much of the cost of her advanced

    education. Eventually, Susanne moved on to teach at Concordia University in

    Mequon, Cardinal Stritch College in Milwaukee and Marian University of Fond du

    Lac in the Education Department of each institution.

     

    Susanne and her late husband, Sellers Mays, loved meeting and interacting with

    people from all over the world. Over the years, they hosted many exchange

    students and families from Brazil, Guadeloupe, Mexico and France—most of

    whom she kept in contact with up until the time of her passing. Traveling the world

    was important to both of them. They took several cruises in the Caribbean and

    traveled frequently in Europe, Canada and Mexico. In recent years until her

    husband’s passing, she and Sellers spent winters in Green Valley, AZ where they

    developed close ties with residents and thought of the city as their “winter” home.

    She was an active member of Grace Lutheran Church, first in Berlin, and the past

    few years in Ripon.

     

    She is survived by a sister; Ruth (Bob) Levy; a brother, Robert (Carol)Nickolai;

    and dear step-children, grandchildren, family and friends all over the world. She

    will be greatly missed by many others whose lives she touched in her 70 years,

    and will be remembered by her intellect, kindness and wonderful craft skills.

     

    Memorial services will be held on Saturday, May 10, 2014 at 11:00 a.m. at Grace

    Evangelical Lutheran Church at 430 W. Griswold Street in Ripon, the Rev. Clay R.

    Salmela officiating. Inurnment will be in Memory Hill Cemetery in Princeton. There

    will be a gathering of family and friends at the church on Saturday morning from

    10:00 a.m. until the time of the services. Arrangements have been entrusted to

    Barbola Funeral Chapel of Berlin. Memorials may be directed to Cedric and Lula

    Mays Foundation at P.O. Box 13101, Wauwatosa, WI 53213, which provides

    college scholarships for underserved students or to Marian University at 45 S.

    National Avenue Fond du Lac, WI 54935, Department of Education.

     

    Online condolences may be sent to the family at barbolafc@yahoo.com